用自己的柔情把一个人牢牢缠住，他怎么会不爱你？If everything as easy as you say, then we might hardly see any issues in the marriage.Some people just can not get along after they got married for a whihe, no matter what you do on one end or both ends. This is the reality, unfortunately.
-topspin(topspin);
2012-6-13{153}(#7588313@0)
I have not read the other people's opinions yet and I don't know what kind of relationship that you are in ( I mean married or not), but if I were you, I will not allow I myself to continue this kind of relationship.wyh do you want to hang youself on only one tree?
I will choose to leave him, it does not matter if there is any child issue involved here or not.
-topspin(topspin);
2012-6-13{149}(#7588302@0)
I thought the opposite is true. Maybe I am wrong.
-topspin(topspin);
2012-6-13(#7588321@0)
干嘛不直接问他？
-wonderfield(ok);
2012-6-13(#7588314@0)
sigh, I don't what to say, he has already chosen and being very nice to you, does it mean something to you, maybe find some hobbies you both interested and do it together
-iou(笨恐龙);
2012-6-13(#7588331@0)
"好多男人不真心喜欢，也能把人逗的很开心" - I believe time can tell the truth, be confident to yourself, and stop convincing yourself that he is not in-love with you, besides, there is never a 不快乐的幸福
-iou(笨恐龙);
2012-6-13(#7588945@0)
If you don't have confident in yourself, you only have to go with the flow then.From the way that you worded here, it seems that you have no other better choices than just stucking with him. We were not you, we can not feel how you feel, so we can only make the suggestion that you should do something make sense,in the mean time following your own hearts, not our hearts. Because you are the person who will stay with him, not us.
-topspin(topspin);
2012-6-13{351}(#7589283@0)
On the surface, everything seems fine. I've got this great guy. And he loves my kid. And he sure does like me a lot. And I can't live like that. It's not the way I'm built. - Jerry Maguire.Dorothy won him back after she left him. But will you risk it?
-alex21cn(wxy);
2012-6-13{62}(#7589597@0)
have you talked with him - heart to heart.. asking those questions directly and see how he responds? he may not tell the whole truth, but at least, it's better to guess...
-mikesmith(老猫);
2012-6-13(#7589939@0)
:-) "不会有你想要的激情的" if you say so, she might not willing to engage. If you use social exchange theory to explain, it's possible better chance or her to accept and enjoy.
-nuanxin(nuanxin);
2012-6-14(#7591497@0)
A woman needs to know her deal breakers. If lack of passion from the guy is a deal breaker for her, then be it. But only she knows if it is.A very helpful thing she can do is to find help for the man to break his infatuation with the previous girl and heal his withdrawal syndrome. Once that's done, things will become much clearer, likely increasing his interest in our friend here.
-andishi(时安迪);
2012-6-14{244}(#7592281@0)